As July comes to a close (wow how is the summer flying by so quickly????) I’ve decided to dedicate most of the posts this month to one of my favourite times of year: Back To School! I’ll be talking about preparing for university and sharing some things I’ve learned for getting through that crazy first year! If any of you guys have ideas for posts or want me to cover a specific topic, just leave it in the comments and I’ll fit it in!
Starting University is a scary and exciting adventure. For some, it’s their first time living away from home. Others, are worried about making friends, and others are worried about the tornado of academic work. Either way, uni is a huge change from High School. Teachers are not as hands on (how can you be in a huge class?), the work load is much larger, and you’re meeting new people everywhere you look.
This summer I’ve been thinking back to my first year a lot. Going over the mistakes I made and wondering what things I could’ve changed to avoid certain experiences. While there’s no right way to go through university, there are some things you might want to avoid to make your first year go a little more smoothly, so, I’ve decided to curate a few things I wish I’d been told (and a few I wish I’d believed more) before starting school last fall!
Date That Boy — In the first few weeks of university you’re going to meet so many people, and some of them just might be people you’re madly attracted to. Whatever the case, and no matter how well you get along, or how “right” it feels in the first few months of school, do not date the boy! By all means, keep up the relationship. Flirt, text, hang out and giggle, but wait until at least mid semester before making any serious commitments. School gets stressful and you’re at university to work on yourself and your academics. Focus on that before jumping in to something that could go south really fast. Trust me on this one. It has bad idea written all over it.
Forget The Readings — While home work might seem light and easy (reminiscent of high school) in the first month of uni, do not let yourself fall behind in readings. When things start to pick up (and trust me, they will) you’ll thank yourself for keeping up and even getting ahead. Going in to midterm season with a pile of work you’ve neglected multiplies your stress by at least 1000%!
Shut Yourself Away — While school is incredibly important (that’s what you’re paying tons of money for of course) don’t lock yourself away in the library or your dorm room. Being social is just as important to your experience and well being as academics, so make sure you take time to talk to the people on your floor and go out once in a awhile.
Miss That Opportunity — If you go in to school knowing you’re interested in a certain type of club, don’t miss joining it! I went in to first year with a few clubs I wanted to join in mind, but was either too scared too go through with it, or got too busy. Looking back on it now, I regret that decision and have decided to follow through with those clubs this year! Student groups and associations are a great way to meet like minded students and people who could ultimately become your best friends! Don’t give up on things that could really improve your uni experience.
Wear Only Pyjamas — I know school gets hectic. Assignments pile up and it feels like you’re living in the library. But please, don’t go from well thought through outfits, to sweats and pjs every day! As silly as it seems, dressing up and wearing clothes that make you feel awesome and beautiful are really important for feeling confident. If you feel good in what you’re wearing it’ll translate to how you act to others and how people react to you. And hey, when things are crazy, it’s always great to look in the mirror and know you look damn fine!
Worry About Your Major — Things change. You learn new things and take classes that you’ve never heard of. University is made for this! The more you learn, the more your ideas of the perfect major might change…or not! I know so many people who came in to school in one program, and by the end of the year, had completely switched. I also know people who came in with one idea, and realized it really was the perfect program for them. It’s all dependent on the person, and there’s no right way to go about it! Just know that figuring out your course of study is a process, and it works out in the end.
Forget About Yourself — This is my last, and probably most important, piece of advice. Don’t forget to take care of yourself. Workout, take breaks, eat well and be gentle with yourself. School is crazy, and when stress starts to get to you, it’s important to take a step back and make sure you are keeping yourself healthy and happy. You absolutely cannot function optimally if you’re not sleeping enough or are incredibly anxious. Your mental and physical health are both so important and school should never overshadow that!
So, those were a few of the things I want to warn incoming freshman about. It’s a scary time, but don’t let the new experiences and change throw you off. You are a strong person and scary experiences are the perfect opportunity for learning and growing!
Again, if there are any “Back-to-School” topics you’d like me to cover, let me know in the comments!