Fall has finally hit Toronto in full force. The leaves are changing colour, the air is brisk and cool. My sundresses have been put away and replaced with sweaters, and pumpkins and halloween decorations are on every porch.
October (one of my favourite months) always comes around to give me a place to slow down and enjoy. Sure, it also marks the beginning of midterms and crazy stress, but somehow, in the midst of all that, there is some inherent soothing quality to fall. While tackling a pile of readings this Saturday night (lively I know), I made some tea, lit a candle and let the ambiance and the beautiful foliage outside, carry me through my work.
It was calming. Restorative in a sense, and everyone needs that once in a while, especially if another round of midterms are heading your way.
As the seasons change, my music taste generally changes with them. Fall is obviously no exception. My iTunes playlists shift from upbeat pop, to more subdued blues and indie tunes, melodies that mirror the changing colours and brisk winds of October. Today I thought I’d share some of my favourite autumn tunes with you, as well as a couple books I’ve read recently and really liked!
Big Magic – Elizabeth Gilbert
Written by the author of Eat, Pray, Love. this book was quite a treat. It was quite thought provoking and made me question a lot of habits I posses in relation to my own creativity, which is something I value deeply. If you’re a creative person (and Gilbert affirms that we all are), this enthralling read is perfect for you!
Paris To The Moon – Adam Gopnik
This book is essentially a compilation of articles written while Gopnik (an American writer) was living in Paris with his wife and young son. It is full of delightful accounts of living in, arguably, the most romantic city in Europe, and the trials or raising a child away from the world you were raised in yourself. My favourite parts of the book were always stories of Gopnik’s young son Luke, and the mischief he got up to in the Luxembourg Gardens.
So, I know this was a little bit of a random post…a weird little journey, but books and music have always been important to me and I cannot deny the power of good music in hard times (aka midterms).
If you (like me) are in the middle of a hellish stint of midterms, I just want you to remember to take care of yourself! Eat well, shower, exercise and take time for yourself during this crazy time. No exam is ever worth sacrificing your own wellbeing!
While biking down to school one day, David and I stumbled upon a beautiful mural and just had, to stop and take some pictures. Yes, we are those basic people you see taking pictures everywhere, and yes, we love it!
But seriously, how cool is this mural???
Late September and early October are those times of the year when it’s cold in the morning and hot in the afternoon, and you know what that means? It’s shorts and sweaters season (clearly one of my favourites)!! Pairing your fave summer shorts with chunky sweaters and jackets, is an easy way to transition your summer staples in to fall, which is great for those of us who aren’t quite ready to let go of summer!
I jumped on the bomber jacket band wagon in September when I bought this vintage beauty at a Value Village (one of the best places on Earth even though it’s gotten slightly overpriced). This jacket goes with literally everything and is so warm and comfy.
I wear it a lot, and I’m not even mad.
If you’d like to get on the bomber band wagon, there are so many cute options, and if you buy a plain one, you can customize it to your own liking all by yourself (think patches, pins and lots of embroidery!)
I went for a little pattern play in this outfit because it’s pretty simple otherwise. Adding the mix of stripes and plaid makes the whole look that much more playful and interesting!
Hey there!! Today’s #OOTD is one of my closet favourites! It’s one of those great versatile dresses that will take you from class to dinner with your friends, and is just the right amount of ridiculous – which is what I tend to look for in my wardrobe.
I picked this awesome dress up in Portugal over the summer and fell in love because it’s weird – in a good way. Not only is my favourite colour blue, but my sorority colours are light and dark blue, which means that this dress and I are destined to be together! It’s so incredibly comfortable (which is very important) and looks just as good with sneakers as it does with girly flats, which is something I can totally get behind!
Because the dress itself is pretty bold, I paired it with some yellow floral flats for a pop of pattern (yellow and blue is one of my favourite colour combos) and finished the look off with a casual “man bun” – which has become my go to hair style recently because I’m lazy and it usually looks pretty good!
Hope you’ve been having a great day!
P.S. Thanks again to my best friend David, for the lovely photos, you’re the best!
Well hey there stranger! It’s been awhile since my last post over here on Pin & Daisy, but settling in to my school rhythm took a bit longer than expected and I figured that deserved priority! Because I’ve been away so long and haven’t really had a chance to take pictures for a legitimate post, today I’m just going to do a mini life update and a bit of a reflection on my first month back at school!
We’re well in to October now and you know what that means. . .midterms! I’ve had four of them this week (ridiculous I know), and while it’s been pretty crazy, it’s also helped me reflect on how much I’ve changed as a person/student, since last year. I’ve found it so much easier to organize my studying/homework, and have created a set method to study for exams and tests (which has been a total lifesaver).
Other than crazy amounts of midterms, school has been awesome! I love all my classes, my profs are wonderful, and I’ve made so many new/awesome connections, so I’d call this semester a win so far! While I’m still not totally in the swing of things (still on vacation in my mind), everything is falling in to place as the days go by. Campus is also gorgeous in the fall, and I can’t wait until all the trees start turning beautiful shades of orange and red! Autumn is my favourite season, and I love being able to drink apple cider, eat fall treats and wear sweaters, scarves and jackets. It’s a pretty magical time.
This semester, I’m trying to make an effort to get more involved on campus. In first year I was totally preoccupied with figuring school and myself out, and kind of ignored extracurriculars. This fall I’ve joined a mental health awareness group (something I feel really strongly about) and am going to more events and activities put on by my college. Getting involved is hard (considering how many choices there are, and how big the school is), so I’m hoping it’ll get a bit easier as this year goes on!
On a more random note, I’ve also finally decided to bind a book of my own poetry! This idea is still in the beginning phases, but I’ll keep you more updated on that as it progresses.
Back in September I also joined a sorority! Bet you didn’t know they had them in Canada! Surprisingly, many Canadian universities do have Greek life! The whole recruitment process is kind of crazy: picture a three day long interview with, seven different organizations, and you kind of get the picture. Even though it was pretty intimidating, the end result was so awesome, and I learned a lot about my self throughout the process. I ended up in an organization called Kappa Kappa Gamma, and honestly could not be happier. All my new sisters are such cool, caring, intelligent women, and I feel very lucky to be a part of our chapter.
I know what you’re thinking: “A sorority? Seriously? Those are for rich white girls we just want to party and feel better than everyone.” Sure, it makes sense. Our society has so many misconceptions about Greek life in general. Sorority women are portrayed as dumb and snotty in movies and on tv, so of course that must be how it is in real life…right?
There is so much more to sorority women, and greek life in general, and I’m going to take a stab at fighting some popular stereotypes:
(1) Stereotype: Sorority girls think academics are very low priority. Truth: Academics are our number one priority! In most cases, the all sorority average is higher than the campus average because we encourage each other to excel and push ourselves to higher academic standards. It’s also easier to study when you always have a friend to go to the library with you (no matter what you’re studying)!
(2) Stereotype: All you do is party and drink! Truth: Not everything is about partying/drinking. In fact, we aren’t even allowed alcohol on our property or in the house! All sororities strive to uphold philanthropy, academic excellence and sisterhood above all else. While many girls do drink at other events, nobody will force you to do anything you’re uncomfortable with, and most of our time spent together is filled with crafting, eating and just hanging out.
(3) Stereotype: You’re all a bunch of stuck up rich girls. Truth: We actually all come from totally different backgrounds, and try to give back to the community in many ways, and as often as we can, whether it be by holding charity events, volunteering at soup kitchens, or organizing book drives.
(4) Stereotype: You pay for all your friends. Truth: That’s ridiculous! You aren’t paying for friends, you’re just paying for the cool stuff you get to participate in, and the events and activities you plan and attend with your sisters! Like any other organization or sports team, there are fees to keep us running and doing all the wonderful things we do!
(5) Stereotype: You get hazed as a new member. Truth:Not true! All sororities are strictly against hazing! As a new member you’re integrated in to your chapter in meaningful and fun ways, not by being forced to do something you’re uncomfortable with. Your chapter wants you to feel loved and supported, not scared and attacked! Hazing allegations are taken very seriously, and chapters can be shut down because of it!
(6) Stereotype: Everyone is the same in a sorority: blonde, rich, dumb and snotty. Truth: Each chapter is home to a group of diverse, authentic, and lovely ladies! My Kappa sisters are all so cool and different from each other, and that’s what makes them all awesome! Everyone has different skills/strengths/passions, to bring to our chapter so we can all push and support each other to excel in all aspects.
There are probably a lot of other rumours I could address, but I figured those were the most pressing! It’s easy to get caught up in the things you hear in the news or watch in movies, but if your school has greek life and you aren’t sure about joining, I highly recommend it, you just might find your new home away from home!
Well, I guess that’s all for now, but I will for sure be more regular with posting (I promise) because I’ve missed my blog this month!! Hope you’re all enjoying a lovely day (the weather here is phenomenal).