Well hey there stranger! It’s been awhile since my last post over here on Pin & Daisy, but settling in to my school rhythm took a bit longer than expected and I figured that deserved priority! Because I’ve been away so long and haven’t really had a chance to take pictures for a legitimate post, today I’m just going to do a mini life update and a bit of a reflection on my first month back at school!
We’re well in to October now and you know what that means. . .midterms! I’ve had four of them this week (ridiculous I know), and while it’s been pretty crazy, it’s also helped me reflect on how much I’ve changed as a person/student, since last year. I’ve found it so much easier to organize my studying/homework, and have created a set method to study for exams and tests (which has been a total lifesaver).
Other than crazy amounts of midterms, school has been awesome! I love all my classes, my profs are wonderful, and I’ve made so many new/awesome connections, so I’d call this semester a win so far! While I’m still not totally in the swing of things (still on vacation in my mind), everything is falling in to place as the days go by. Campus is also gorgeous in the fall, and I can’t wait until all the trees start turning beautiful shades of orange and red! Autumn is my favourite season, and I love being able to drink apple cider, eat fall treats and wear sweaters, scarves and jackets. It’s a pretty magical time.
This semester, I’m trying to make an effort to get more involved on campus. In first year I was totally preoccupied with figuring school and myself out, and kind of ignored extracurriculars. This fall I’ve joined a mental health awareness group (something I feel really strongly about) and am going to more events and activities put on by my college. Getting involved is hard (considering how many choices there are, and how big the school is), so I’m hoping it’ll get a bit easier as this year goes on!
On a more random note, I’ve also finally decided to bind a book of my own poetry! This idea is still in the beginning phases, but I’ll keep you more updated on that as it progresses.
Back in September I also joined a sorority! Bet you didn’t know they had them in Canada! Surprisingly, many Canadian universities do have Greek life! The whole recruitment process is kind of crazy: picture a three day long interview with, seven different organizations, and you kind of get the picture. Even though it was pretty intimidating, the end result was so awesome, and I learned a lot about my self throughout the process. I ended up in an organization called Kappa Kappa Gamma, and honestly could not be happier. All my new sisters are such cool, caring, intelligent women, and I feel very lucky to be a part of our chapter.
I know what you’re thinking: “A sorority? Seriously? Those are for rich white girls we just want to party and feel better than everyone.” Sure, it makes sense. Our society has so many misconceptions about Greek life in general. Sorority women are portrayed as dumb and snotty in movies and on tv, so of course that must be how it is in real life…right?
There is so much more to sorority women, and greek life in general, and I’m going to take a stab at fighting some popular stereotypes:
(1) Stereotype: Sorority girls think academics are very low priority. Truth: Academics are our number one priority! In most cases, the all sorority average is higher than the campus average because we encourage each other to excel and push ourselves to higher academic standards. It’s also easier to study when you always have a friend to go to the library with you (no matter what you’re studying)!
(2) Stereotype: All you do is party and drink! Truth: Not everything is about partying/drinking. In fact, we aren’t even allowed alcohol on our property or in the house! All sororities strive to uphold philanthropy, academic excellence and sisterhood above all else. While many girls do drink at other events, nobody will force you to do anything you’re uncomfortable with, and most of our time spent together is filled with crafting, eating and just hanging out.
(3) Stereotype: You’re all a bunch of stuck up rich girls. Truth: We actually all come from totally different backgrounds, and try to give back to the community in many ways, and as often as we can, whether it be by holding charity events, volunteering at soup kitchens, or organizing book drives.
(4) Stereotype: You pay for all your friends. Truth: That’s ridiculous! You aren’t paying for friends, you’re just paying for the cool stuff you get to participate in, and the events and activities you plan and attend with your sisters! Like any other organization or sports team, there are fees to keep us running and doing all the wonderful things we do!
(5) Stereotype: You get hazed as a new member. Truth: Not true! All sororities are strictly against hazing! As a new member you’re integrated in to your chapter in meaningful and fun ways, not by being forced to do something you’re uncomfortable with. Your chapter wants you to feel loved and supported, not scared and attacked! Hazing allegations are taken very seriously, and chapters can be shut down because of it!
(6) Stereotype: Everyone is the same in a sorority: blonde, rich, dumb and snotty. Truth: Each chapter is home to a group of diverse, authentic, and lovely ladies! My Kappa sisters are all so cool and different from each other, and that’s what makes them all awesome! Everyone has different skills/strengths/passions, to bring to our chapter so we can all push and support each other to excel in all aspects.
There are probably a lot of other rumours I could address, but I figured those were the most pressing! It’s easy to get caught up in the things you hear in the news or watch in movies, but if your school has greek life and you aren’t sure about joining, I highly recommend it, you just might find your new home away from home!
Well, I guess that’s all for now, but I will for sure be more regular with posting (I promise) because I’ve missed my blog this month!! Hope you’re all enjoying a lovely day (the weather here is phenomenal).